Your personal relationship with the Higher Source is yours and yours alone. I share my teachings with others through my blog and books I write. People around me know that I believe in spiritually but I do not discuss my deeper beliefs with anyone. Everyone is allowed to believe as they wish. The ideas I put out are just that my ideas and nothing more. Accept them or reject them does not matter to me. My job is to present these teachings as a way to help others. My way may not be your way each of us has to choose our own path.

One thing is certain to keep your beliefs, your goals and your dreams to yourself. In the case that it involves others you need to set your goals and dreams together but even then you should keep it within the group that is involved. This will resolve problems before they arise. An old Navy saying is “Loose Lips Sinks Ships”. There has been a number of times that someone shared an idea with a friend only to find that the person they shared it with took their idea and did it themselves. Then the success that would have been theirs has been lost.

There are all kinds of people in different belief systems that have greater success than others in that same belief system. The reason for that is that it is not the belief system that the person is involved with but that person’s personal relationship with the Higher Source. No matter what belief system that you are involved with if you believe that you serve a good Higher Source and only good things will come to you. Then you are more than likely to be able to enjoy the good things in life. On the other hand, you see yourself as a victim and nothing ever works out for you. Then guess what you will see comes to happen in your life.

The main thing to remember is that you are in control of your own life unless you let someone else control you. There are many people that want to have control over others to get them to do what they want them to do. The greatest tool they have to use against you is fear. One person stated that fear is false evidence appearing real. The Higher Source does not want anyone to live in fear. The Higher Source is love and the Higher Source wants all his children to walk in love.

Yes, I will admit that love is also another form of control. The complete opposite of fear. When you are in love you want to do things that will show your love for the other person. Some people will say that you are sucking up to the other person. Or that the other person has you wrapped around their little finger. These are the only people who do not understand what love is really about. They will tell you to stand up for yourself. If you listen to them they will draw a wedge between you and your loved one. To the point that you will lose this loving relationship.

This has to be looked at as what really matters. There is a saying that goes like this “A happy wife is a happy life.” So you really have to ask yourself if your right to be right is worth losing a good relationship. Wayne Dyer is one of his programs explained how he would go over the conversation in his head before he started it. If I said this then she would say that and it would lead to an argument that will cause friction between them, so its best to just let it go.

Walking with the Higher Source in love will bring you a better understanding of others and what is truly matters. There is a book that states it perfectly “Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff” and in reality, it is all small stuff.